Friday, March 28, 2008

Needs someone to listen...

Weather:
There are so many things I want to say but I know there are many things we can't say it on the internet. It's not difficult to find someone who is willing to listen to my woes but sometimes I need that person who is involved in situation to listen and find a solution together.

I know it's hard at times when women want to get their message across to men and vice versa. I learn to respect that men and women are different and can never be equal. I'm willing to learn to make myself being able to be understood by people around me especially my love ones. In fact, how many people are actually willing to do that? Willing to learn doesn't mean that you forgo being yourself but knowing how to handle and understand opposite sex needs better.

There are so many things I want to know the truth and I do not have the courage to ask but then I have to understand that if the truth is being told it's going to be hurtful. So I ask myself again, would I rather be told the truth? Yes, I would rather know the truth even though it is going to be hurtful. Why? Because telling the truth won't make a person go around guessing your actions. When people start to guess, there are many possibilities and that is when mistrust, misunderstanding, doubts and fear starts flowing into mind.

In relationships, men might ask why is it when a women do something wrong and in the end the men have to apologise? "Sorry" is a very big word for men as men do not apologise unless they felt that they are in the wrong. Whereas for women, "Sorry" means they care about how you feel. "Sorry" is a magical word when a women hear the word from a men. Why? This I ain't sure but I do know that if my love were to do something wrong and apologise, I will tend to be even more forgiving. When the word "Sorry" goes into a women's ear, hearts will be like cheese melting away~

It definitely feels good to love and to be love in return. How many people are actually willing to sacrifice themselves for the person they love? I know I'm one who is willing to sacrifice many things for the person I love. People might say is it worth doing so many things and you might not get a return. In the first place, when I am willing to give I should have the preparation that I won't be able to get a return but if I did that is of course a good surprise.

Time can definitely heal many wounds and let us forget about a lot of things. Time plus someone whom you love to give love, care and concern. Healing of wounds and forgetting things can be a lot faster. I know there will always be sunshine after the rain but after sunshine there will always be rain.

Right now, I need a lot of love, care and concern. I need someone to be there for me, someone to depend on, someone to give me hugs, someone who can put me to sleep at night, someone to give me kisses, someone to be there when I fall, someone to be there when I'm happy, someone to share tears with, someone to hold on, someone who is concern about me, someone who will protect me, someone who cares everything about me, someone who loves me and someone who is willing to share each other's ups and downs. And I wish that someone is you (I won't be naming who).

- It's almost every women's wish that they will be first priority in their men's heart -